
Just a few more memories of our farm cat Buffy. As I mentioned two days ago, she was always getting pregnant. I believe she nearly had 4 litters in just one year! We were fairly certain that the male cat who sired these 4 litters on her was our neighbor's yellow tabby cat named Buster. Once Buster was our cat for about 20 minutes or the time it takes to drive a car from Imlay City to the farm in Lum. Our minister at the First Congregational Church UCC in Imlay City gave us Buster as we could always use another farm cat. I remember going in the car with Mom and my sisters to pick him and how angry he was on the 7 mile ride back to the farm. I'm not certain at what time in the history of us living on the farm when we brought Buster home, but it could have been before we got Buffy, Fluffy, Jeanie, and Tigerlily. I remember that Friskey was still on the farm, but as soon as we pulled into the driveway and let Buster out of the box he was transported in, my memory recalls that he jumped out of the car window and ran straight away!
Once Buffy was of age to conceive kittens, we would occasionally see Buster lurking about the barns. We found out that he had run away about one half mile going west on Lum Road to our neighbors, the Pollacks. Mom was great friends with Ted and Frieda Pollack and we would go over there in the long summer nights and Mom would have intelligent adult conversation and cigarettes while we kids would go swimming in the pool in the Pollack's backyard and it is here we found our stray runaway.
Buffy had her first litter in the springtime of 1970. I guess I was in the 3rd grade and it was on an early Saturday morning that Mom pulled us away from watching Saturday morning cartoons and made us go outside to look for rhubarb to pick and we followed Mom with our grandmother who was visiting to the Horse Barn, and inside there we saw Buffy nursing 4 tiny kittens in a box. We were all so amazed at these little kittens, we were very careful with touching them and Buffy was most gracious and gentle with our presence while she nursed these little infant felines. Sadly these kittens never survived the week. We were told by Mom or Dad that an animal had gotten into the barn and had eaten every kitten. We were all sad and poor Buffy was very distraught...what had happened to her kittens. Word got out about our loss and the best friend of my younger sister, Jennifer, told her parents, I believe, and they gave us a kitten that had recently been born to a cat of theirs. We weren't certain if Buffy would adopt this little calico kitten, but she took to Mixie (as we named her) instantly and nursed and raised Mixie to an adult.
When Mixie was weaned, Buffy had her second litter and being not a very bright cat, she began to have the kittens on the back porch. I think my grandmother was the first to alert my father and mother to this news and we were all drawn outside to see this event and I remember Dad going to Buffy and putting her in a box and taking her inside the shed that was just off the back porch of our house. As he put her in the box, she was giving birth to the first kitten! We all crowded into the shed and I saw the miracle of life of a cat giving birth to 4 kittens. I really can't recall anything about these kittens, their names or their markings but their birth was a remarkable experience to a 9 year old girl. Two of the kittens' names were Sylvester and Marmalade..sorry that I can't recall the other two kittens' names. My thought is that my father must have taken these kittens to the County Animal Shelter in Lapeer, there just isn't any memory of these kittens other than their birth.
Mixie was a gorgeous calico cat who grew up with a supremely cat attitude. There are very few cats that I have never been able to accept me as a friend. Miss Mixie, like I said was not very socialable to me, so my memories of her are rather distant. I do recall that she had one litter of 5 kittens, one died at birth, one was a calico, as beautiful as Mixie was who was called Elsa (Susan named her and claimed her for her own...she was named "Elsa" for the lion Elsa in the movie "Born Free" which we watched on television sometime in the late 1960s or in 1970. Another kitten was a dark tortie and I took her for my own and called her Pearl. Jennifer chose a small grey and white male with bandit markings and called him Tuffy, we always thought Tuffy was the runt of Mixie's litter as he was much smaller than the other kittens. I can't remember what the kitten looked like or its name that Beth Anne chose, perhaps it didn't live long, but its memory is forgotten by my sad brain.
During the summer of 1971 we had many cats on the farm. Buffy had had her 3rd litter and three kittens were still alive, Clare, Lafayette, and Mittens. Mixie had 3 or 4 kittens, Elsa, Pearl, Tuffy and maybe the 4th forgotten kitten. We had too many cats and we had to get rid of some. To us girls this was not the best choice, we wanted to keep the cats but, again, we were not wealthy people, and we couldn't afford buying large amounts of cat food all the time. Elsa was the first kitten to be given away. She went to the Watz family who lived in Lum and they renamed her "Ginger." I was appalled at the change in her name, not only was she a beautiful calico kitten, but "Elsa" fitted her beauty. She was not a "Ginger." I don't remember what happened to my Pearl, I think she was given away as well, but my memory plays me false here. I'm pretty sure that we gave away Mixie and Pearl to someone who wanted them, but the memory of this event is missing.
Tuffy wasn't going anywhere. He was a very special kitten who truly had 9 lives and my father performed a medical miracle on this little kitten. Sometime during the summer of 1971 we went to Mt. Clemens and stayed at my grandmother's house as it was the 20th class reunion for my mother who grew up in Mt. Clemens. When we returned to the farm the next day we found that Tuffy was limping on his back paw and we believe that a lawn chair that was on our back porch had fallen over on him and broken his tiny leg. My father took toothpicks and splinted this tiny kitten's back paw and over time, healed the leg. When the toothpicks were removed Tuffy ran around without a limp! Later he met his end by being run-over, and we were saddened to learn this as he was "Tuffy" and had survived a broken leg.
During the early spring of 1971 Buffy gave birth to her 3rd litter, of which Lafayette, Clare, Geraldine Josephine and Mittens were the babies. These kittens were born in early March and we were about to go to Georgia where my father was from to take a small vacation visiting my grandparents there. Because Buffy's kittens were so young and recalling what had happened to her first litter, we put Buffy in the basement of the house with plenty of cat food and cat litter I'm assuming, so that she and her kittens would be safe until we returned home from Georgia.
It was on this trip to Georgia that we learned that my father's father died as we were driving south to visit. It was a distinctly sad time for us all. We drove up the long driveway to the house at Hickory Hollow and all the lights were on and lots of cars in the driveway and we thought all the family had gathered at my grandparents to greet us. Not so, I remember we had tried to call my grandparents several times to say we'd be arriving late that night (11 March 1971) but my father could never get a call to go through, and as we were getting out of the car, my father's brother, Roy came towards us very fast and said, "James, Daddy is dead!" This is how I remember this sad night, perhaps Uncle Roy had different words to alert us to the death of my grandfather. I know that night I didn't sleep because I was sleeping in the bed that Pappy always slept in when we came to visit. This was my first experience with a loss of a close loved family member. I wept and wept at Pappy's funeral. No more would I hear him calling my sisters and I, "Chickadee, o' Chickadee," or watch him go off down to the pond fishing, he loved to fish! No more hearing his deep Southern voice trying to tell me stories from his childhood.
We returned very much saddend to Michigan sometime later. We eagerly ran to the basement. my sisters and I, to see how Buffy and her kittens had fared. I think we were all a little scared thinking they might have died too, but no, Buffy and her 4 babies had thrived and the little kittens all had their eyes open (they'd been closed yet when we went to Georgia).
As I said, Buffy was a great hunter of mice and rats and it was always something to watch her bring up something live and then turn it over to her kittens. I saw this once or twice during the summer of 1971 with the 3rd litter. Buffy got pregnant again during the summer of 1971 and I'm not even sure if the her kittens from the 3rd litter were fully weaned as I can recall Lafayette still suckling on her late in the summer. I never did like Lafayette, he was a long haired black kitten with a temper, perhaps we were never able to get him to like humans, or perhaps it was just children he didn't like. Dad took Buffy and Lafayette to the County Animal Shelter either in the late summer of 1971 or early fall. We girls were all angered that Mom and Dad had done this. Now I think perhaps they took the two cats to the shelter as we were planning to move away from Lum to Imlay City and we wouldn't be able to have more than one cat living in the city. I think my sisters and I were so angry at Mom and Dad because they didn't tell us that they were getting rid of Buffy and Lafayette. I think had they told us their reasons there would have been little fuss, well maybe more than a little fuss, Buffy was pregnant and I wouldn't have wanted to miss the birth of new kittens.
I won't go into detail about Dad's ride to Lapeer with two cats who didn't like riding in the car. Lafayette never got to Lapeer. He jumped out of the car window somewhere between the Lum House and Lapeer. Buffy was the only cat who arrived at the County Animal Shelter. Life is hard growing up, we're all forced to make choices that we dislike and Dad was most lenient with his 4 girls, so I know he didn't relish getting rid of our cats.
We purchased a house in Imlay City sometime during the fall of 1971 and we moved into the house on 3 January 1972 and only one cat came with us, Mittens, Buffy's nearly grown cat that belonged to Jennifer and he stayed with us in the city for a good part of 1972. He went missing sometime in late 1972. I went through all of 1973 without having a cat. Mom and Dad were out of the cat-getting business and it was a lackluster year for me without being around cats. I would go across the street to our neighbor the Briegers and play with their big orange long-haired tabby male, it was always a sad time when I had to return back home.
Not too long ago I saw a great movie, besides "
Nanny McPhee" with Colin Firth. It is called "
Easy Virtue" and is set in the 1920s and Mr. Firth plays a world-weary member of the English aristocracy who doesn't interact much with his family until his only son returns home married to an American. A great role for Colin Firth and I highly recommend the period peice as the music, costumes and set location are wondrously done.